Age is just a number—it only matters when you make it matter.

When I was in my mid-20s, I wanted a guy who drove a nice car and who could afford to take me to a fancy restaurant.

People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. But I tell them that I help men by helping women who are dating after 40. ) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men.

Just like women, the men you’re dating have lived and learned.

, I’m always a little shocked to realize that I’m the same age as Carrie and her friends.

If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.

In the following days I’m going to give you some of their stories of dating after 40 and relationships.

(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!

If you’ve recently become single or just turned 31 and are beginning to notice how dating has changed, you came to the right place. Just as you should be open to dating a divorcee, you should also be open to dating someone younger than you. Their relationship works because they are madly in love and they support each other in the ways that they both need to be supported.

Plus, they have a great time together and neither of them could imagine a world without the other person in it.