Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.Always be open and honest about your relationship and dating status.Be sure to also stick to some set boundaries to avoid hurting yourself or others.

Or is it healthy, even beneficial, to date multiple people at the same time in your quest to find a soul mate?Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.Frequently, men would drop out after one, two or three dates.It Allows you to Compare and Contrast Life’s dating opportunities can be like a smorgasbord where everything looks pretty good—and like a smorgasbord, seeing all the opportunities out in front of you at once allows you to be selective.Imagine being at a buffet where you could see only one item at a time.