In seeking conjugal, complementary marriage rather than anti-conjugal, anti-complementary relationships, we seek nothing more than to fit in with the entire universe, to be part of the wonderful ecosystem of humanity and all of nature.
Non-conjugal, non-complementary sexual relationships are a synthetic lifestyle, at odds with nature and the entire cosmos.
What we didn’t know was how to offer kindness, how to get to know each other outside of the bedroom and how to build a non-exploitative relationship.
Even when pop culture attempts to create gay male relationships there is rarely love-based discussions and grappling with choices that determine the fate of all involved parties.
Along the way, I learned that marriage is more than just a tradition or a religious or social construct.
Monogamous, complementary, conjugal marriage is a pearl of great price worth investing one’s entire life in, a pursuit that surpasses all its imitators and impostors.
The four bodies were found in and around the St Margaret’s Churchyard, between June 2014 and September 2015.
Port was arrested on Thursday, in connection with the deaths of Anthony Walgate, Gabriel Kovari, Daniel Whitworth, and Jack Taylor.
Until about six months ago, when my phone buzzed with a text message from a name I never expected to see on my screen again: “Do you want to get coffee? I needed to tell him I was sorry, he needed to tell me how much I had hurt him, and we both needed to hug. Sure, he may have technically had more options than me — he was drawn to men and women, while I was only drawn to men — but that didn’t make him any more promiscuous or untrustworthy than the next guy.
March 27, 2017 (The Public Discourse) -- When Christian rock star Trey Pearson announced he was coming out of the closet and separating from his wife and their two children after seven and a half years of marriage, he said that his wife had been his “biggest supporter” and that “she just hugged me and cried and said how proud of me she was.” If this account is exactly true, it is troubling.
Think about the degree of social decay required—especially within Christianity—for a Christian wife to be so conditioned by popular culture that she immediately congratulates her husband for abandoning her and their children, rather than reaching out for help to preserve their marriage and family.
There is plenty of sex and upset but the complexity of what men being with men looks like often goes unseen and unexamined.
The one glimpse of men attempting to date (this occurred after having sex I believe) was the wonderful scene in wherein the discussion (post breakup) reveals that although sex was frequent psychological visibility was not.