I get regular notifications through my email account telling me that someone has added me as ‘his favourite’.But being someone’s ‘favourite’ doesn’t necessarily translate into being asked out on a date, or even a message saying hello.This online dating starts to feel like the nightclub I used to go to where drunken guys would do the rounds, staggering past every girl at closing time looking for someone, anyone for a goodnight kiss.
‘I’ve noticed that Irish men fetishise black women. There’s more to us than the body that you have unjustly exotified because you refuse to look at what we can offer you intellectually. Don't be shy, find someone to chat with and enjoy yourself, singles are looking for love here!You are welcome to Dating in Ireland and Northern Ireland. They mean well, but I feel like an ageing horse, getting my teeth checked, to see if there is any life left in the old nag.Within minutes, I swear, minutes, guys send messages saying that they want to meet me. I’d like to send him a virtual slap of a hand bag, but there isn’t such an icon.