I probably would’ve gone out with Dex, but the guy took too long!
For instance, if there is a girl that you’ve seen around a bit and you’ve chatted with her a few times you might fall into the trap of telling yourself “oh, I’ll just ask for her number next time I see her”.
There will be traveling, and you're going to have to spend some time together to make it all worth it; you main plan should be inviting her to stay at you place for a day or two.
That means you'll need higher levels of trust and acquaintance; communicating through messages on the dating site won't be enough.
But I do know what it’s like to be the girl that is asked out by a wide variety of guys, in a wide variety of ways. He wasn’t a classically handsome man, but there was instant chemistry and I thought he was so cute.
When I went to leave the store, he stopped me and gave me one of the store business cards.